With February being the month of love, many people turn to online dating in search of companionship.

However, in addition to the usual concerns about online dating, there is now another challenge to consider—the rise of artificial intelligence (AI).

What if the person you have been chatting with and developing feelings for is not a person at all?

AI-powered chatbots are becoming increasingly sophisticated, and while some are designed for harmless interactions, others are programmed with bad intentions.

This is particularly concerning on dating platforms, where emotional investment is high. So, how can you tell if your online Valentine’s date is a real person or AI?

Here are some telltale signs to watch out for:

Speed and frequency of responses

A human will pause between messages and show variation in response times. If the replies come instantly, especially with detailed or complex messages, it could indicate a chatbot.

Repetitive or generic replies

AI can struggle with genuine conversation. If you notice repetitive phrases, generic responses, or an inability to engage in any in-depth discussions like current affairs and political opinions you may be interacting with a bot.

Avoidance of personal questions

While a real person may ask and answer personal questions naturally, AI often deflects or provides vague responses. If your match consistently avoids specifics or repeats information, this is a red flag.

Flawless language

Most humans make typos, use slang, or have quirks in their texting style. If the conversation is unnaturally perfect or overly formal, it might not be a real person.

Inconsistencies in details

A bot may struggle to maintain consistency in storytelling. If you notice contradictions in past conversations or an inability to recall details, this could indicate AI-generated interactions.

Unusual profile behaviour

AI-driven profiles may have limited photos, vague biographies, or avoid video calls. If your match hesitates to engage in voice or video communication, it’s most likely to be an AI bot.

While online dating can be a great way to meet new people, staying cautious and aware of potential AI interactions is essential.

By paying attention to these warning signs, you could avoid a heartbreak or scam in your search for love.

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