GENDER transformation activist Gregory Nyongane said the vicious cycle of gender-based violence and femicide (GBVF) could only be broken if the vital role that men play is recognised and addressed.

Nyongane hosted a debate at the Hull Street Theatre in Kimberley on March 28 to encourage men to become involved in the fight against the scourge of GBVF.

“For far too long, men have been silent bystanders in the fight against abuse. It's time for us to break the silence and take an active role in promoting healthy relationships and preventing abuse,” said Nyongane.

He explained that “toxic masculinity” perpetuates abuse.

“Traditional masculine norms emphasise strength, stoicism and dominance, which can lead to emotional suppression and aggression. It is essential for men to recognise and challenge these norms, creating space for emotional expression and vulnerability.”

Nyongane added that emotional expression was crucial for men's mental health.

“Suppressing emotions can lead to depression, anxiety and other mental health issues. Men need to feel comfortable expressing their emotions in healthy ways, such as talking or engaging in creative activities.

“Men can listen to women's experiences, learn from them, and amplify their voices. By speaking out against sexism, misogyny and abuse, men can use their privilege to create change and promote gender equality.”

He stated that men’s identities were shaped by their race, class and sexuality.

“Men can hold themselves and other men accountable for their actions and attitudes, thereby promoting positive change.

"It's time for men to take an active role in creating change by amplifying women's voices, challenging patriarchal norms and toxic masculinity, expressing their emotions in healthy ways and holding themselves and other men accountable for their actions and attitudes.”

Nyongane said the next dialogue, which will centre around service delivery, is scheduled to take place on April 25.

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