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What's going on for you after sex? Are you someone who prefers to turn around and rattle away?
Or do you love to cuddle afterwards, talk nonsense in love and maybe even ring in another round? Hot. But today is not about erotic sequels.
Rather, it is about the post-coital aftermath – more precisely, about the question: What actually comes AFTER sex?
First things first: If you have had sex, you should definitely go to the toilet afterwards. This is because post-sex peeing can protect against urinary tract infections, popularly known as cystitis, in both men and women.
During coitus: bacteria from the genital area can enter the urethra and cause infection in the urinary tract. Possible consequences: burning and pain when urinating, plus a constant urge to urinate.
Unattractive: Although women are more susceptible to such infections, men are not immune to them either.
By the way, you don't have to jump up and rush to the toilet immediately after ejaculation. You can wait up to 30 minutes to chase the bacteria out of your urinary tract.
After sex, you should wash your penis thoroughly with a pH-neutral cleansing lotion or take a shower right away. This not only makes you fresh, but also prevents bacteria from depositing under the foreskin, which in turn can lead to infections, especially in uncircumcised men.
If your partner finds your sprint to the shower unromantic, why not take her with you?
Your shlong feels a bit stressed after extensive sex, the skin seems slightly irritated? Then this tip might be just the thing for you. During my research for today's column, I repeatedly came across articles on the topic where dermatologists recommend applying olive oil to the penis after sex. Uncircumcised men retract the foreskin for this purpose.
The oil provides natural protection and makes everything supple. If you are unsure whether you should smear the good cold-pressed on your best piece, consult your family doctor or dermatologist or stick to baby oil. This should work just as well.
Treat yourself to a sip. Or two or three. Water, of course. This is because during sex, the body loses fluid, which you should then replenish to it. Not only hydrates, but also helps you to go to a quiet place.
They have torn each other's clothes off in a frenzy of passion and are now lying naked and sweaty next to each other? Magical. Stay that way a little longer. After sex, our skin is often still moist and also more susceptible to irritation by certain substances, such as synthetic fibers. Naked, air circulation is not restricted, the skin can breathe.
If the whole thing is too cold for you, be sure to use breathable materials, such as cotton, in the area of your bikini area. If possible, do not wear the underpants you wore before sex. Because during the day and especially during the erotic intro, bacteria may have accumulated here. A fresh pair of knickers reduces the risk of infection. And it's sexier.
Be a gentleman – and dispose of used condoms after intercourse. If your girlfriend finds a full condom while cleaning up, it's guaranteed to be rather uncool. Knot it up and put it in the residual waste.
Aftercare is the term used by the BDSM community to describe the care you give your partner after a session. So, for example, if the Dom strokes the submissive, whom he has previously chastised consensually, is there for him, treats him if necessary and then orders a large pizza with extra cheese for both of them.
But even in partnerships where non-kinky sex is practiced, loving aftercare is important. This includes caresses, hugs, conversations, and yes, also the glass of water for the partner as well as the cuddly hoodie so that sweetheart does not freeze.
Aftercare gives both partners a sense of security and builds trust. And it helps us to regulate our post-sex state. Thanks to the release of happiness hormones – endorphins, dopamine, oxytocin – we are downright high during the act, especially during the climax.
Orgasm is followed by hormonal decline, which can increase emotions and sensations, both positive and negative.
Extra closeness during this period can help maintain oxytocin levels until our hormonal balance has returned to normal.
Happy cuddling.
[ Via GQ Germany]
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