Ebenhaezer Dibakwane. Picture: Supplied Celebrated South African comedian and actor, Ebenhaezer Dibakwane.
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Fame is often seen as the pinnacle of success, glitz, glamour, and adoration from millions. But behind the bright lights and red carpet moments, a darker reality exists, one that has claimed many stars' lives in the entertainment industry.
The tragic loss of figures like Riky Rick, Patrick Shai, Shoki Mokgapa, and HHP has exposed the growing mental health crisis in the industry and in broader society.
More recently, the death of Ebenhaezer Dibakwane has sparked an urgent revisit to the conversation.
Suicide remains one of the leading causes of death globally, and South Africa is no exception. In 2019, the country ranked 10th globally for suicide rates, with 23.5 suicides per 100,000 people, according to the World Population Review.
The South African Society of Psychiatrists (SASOP) reports that men are disproportionately affected, with societal pressures forcing them to suppress emotions rather than seek help.
Dr Mvuyiso Talatala, from SASOP, explains that men don’t seek help due to the "macho male stereotype" that expects them to "man up". Many of those men dying by suicide were battling depression, but instead of expressing sadness, they turned to substance abuse, reckless behaviour, and anger.
The entertainment industry is a high-stress environment filled with financial instability, public scrutiny, and extreme expectations.
While celebrities are often admired, many struggle with loneliness, anxiety, and depression issues, usually exacerbated by social media and cyberbullying.
"Independent Media Lifestyle" reached out to SADAG for insights following Dibakwane's recent passing.
They stated, “Mental health struggles do not discriminate. Celebrities may seem to have everything, but behind the spotlight, they too face immense pressures and personal challenges. This heart-wrenching loss highlights the need for a societal shift where asking for help is seen as a strength, not a weakness.”
"This loss highlights the importance of checking in on our loved ones, even those who seem the happiest; sometimes, the brightest smiles hide the deepest pain.
"SADAG urges everyone to reach out, have real conversations, and remind those around you that they are not alone. If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek help; support is available.”
The deaths of South African celebrities by suicide are a tragic reminder that mental illness does not discriminate; it affects the rich, the famous, the young, and the old.
Instead of judging or gossiping, we must create a society where seeking help is not a sign of weakness but of strength.
The late rapper Riky Rick.
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South African celebrities who died by suicide
Several well-known South African figures have publicly battled mental health struggles, with some tragically losing their lives to suicide.
Riky Rick (1987–2022)
The award-winning rapper, actor, and fashion icon openly spoke about his struggles with depression. In his final message, he wrote: “I’m sorry for being the one who gives up, but the pain I feel is too much to deal with.”
His death sent shockwaves through the music and fashion industries, sparking urgent conversations about mental health awareness.
Patrick Shai (1956–2022)
The veteran actor and activist died in January 2022. His passing highlighted the mental health struggles of older men, who often feel forgotten and burdened by past trauma.
Shoki Mokgapa (1984–2018)
The "Sink" actress battled clinical depression and anxiety for years before dying by suicide. Her death sheds light on how even those who seem to have it all can feel hopeless inside.
HHP (1980–2018)
The pioneering Motswako rapper was open about his suicidal thoughts and depression, even speaking about multiple previous suicide attempts before his passing.
Siyabonga Zubane (1998–2022)
The "Gomora" actor, only 23 years old, died in May 2022. His co-star, late veteran actress Connie Chiume, urged the government to provide support for artists struggling with mental illnesses.
These are just a few of the many South African public figures who have died by suicide due to mental health struggles, joining a long list that also includes Khensani Maseko, Ceagan Arendse, and Jabu Christopher Kubheka.
Why are men more affected?
Globally, men account for about 75% of all suicide deaths, and South Africa follows a similar trend. Experts believe this is due to several factors:
How we should talk about suicide
The South African Depression and Anxiety Group (SADAG) emphasises the importance of language when discussing suicide. Phrases like “committed suicide” carry connotations of criminality, while terms like “died by suicide” are more compassionate and reduce stigma.
SADAG also urges the public to avoid judgmental comments when discussing those who have taken their own lives. Instead of asking, “Why did they do it?”, the focus should be on understanding and prevention.
What can you do?
Encourage open conversations about mental health: Society needs to normalise discussions about mental health, especially among men. Celebrities like Trevor Noah, Sho Madjozi, and Cassper Nyovest have spoken openly about therapy, encouraging others to seek help.
Making mental health resources more accessible: While therapy and psychiatric care are expensive, South Africa has free resources like SADAG and October Health
Support artists and public figures: The entertainment industry needs mental health initiatives to help struggling artists. Financial planning, therapy access, and safe spaces for emotional expression can make a difference.
Fight cyberbullying and social media pressure: Social media plays a role in amplifying mental health struggles, with cyberbullying and negative comments often pushing individuals over the edge. Stricter regulations and online support systems are needed to combat this issue.
If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts, help is available: Contact SADAG at 0800 567 567 or reach out to a trusted friend, therapist, or family member. Your life matters. You are not alone.