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Prince Kaybee reveals his battle with serious amnesia: 'I’m scared I’ll miss life opportunities'

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Vuyile Madwantsi|Published

Music producer and DJ Prince Kaybee stunned fans with a raw and emotional confession on X (formerly Twitter) about his battle with serious memory loss.

Image: Picture: Instagram

South African musician Prince Kaybee stunned fans with a raw and emotional confession on X (formerly Twitter) about his battle with serious memory loss.

In a heartfelt thread, the award-winning hitmaker revealed his growing fear of amnesia, sharing how it’s slowly unravelling his life.  

“I suffer from SERIOUS AMNESIA, and I am a bit emotional and frustrated at how my memory is deteriorating, man. I am scared this will lead to missing life opportunities, which will make me very incompetent, and I HATE THAT,” he wrote. 

The 34-year-old artist didn’t hold back about the emotional weight of his condition, “Not gonna lie, this is rocking me, man. I have kids to raise.”  

The vulnerability of his words has sparked a wave of public concern and support, but beneath his honesty lies a deeper medical reality that demands attention.  

What could be behind Kaybee’s amnesia?

Memory loss or amnesia can stem from a wide range of conditions, many of which are linked to brain health, lifestyle, or underlying diseases.

Prince Kaybee. Picture: Instagram/@princekaybee_sa

Image: Instagram/@princekaybee_sa

While Kaybee didn't share a specific diagnosis, his words suggest a serious neurological issue. Neurological research points to several potential causes for memory deterioration, including: 

  • Chronic stress or trauma: Stress hormones like cortisol can impair memory function over time. As a public figure juggling a demanding career and family, chronic stress may have taken a toll.  
  • Neurodegenerative conditions: Diseases like early-onset Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia could explain his symptoms. While these conditions are rare in younger individuals, they aren't unheard of.  
  • Vitamin deficiencies: Lack of essential nutrients like Vitamin B12 can cause memory problems. This is often treatable but requires early detection.  
  • Sleep disorders: Poor sleep, insomnia, or sleep apnea can severely impact cognitive function and memory.  
  • Traumatic brain injury (TBI): Past head injuries, even mild ones, can lead to memory issues years later.  Memory problems can happen to anyone, regardless of age.
  • The music artist’s statement that “experts” have linked his condition to an underlying brain issue suggests he is undergoing medical examinations.

However, the emotional strain of uncertainty is palpable and relatable for many.  While there is limited South African-specific data on amnesia, the World Health Organisation notes that dementia, which includes memory loss, is on the rise globally and particularly in Africa as populations age. 

The World Health Organisation (WHO) estimates that there are currently over 55 million people living with dementia worldwide, and this number is projected to increase to 78 million by 2030 and 139 million by 2050. This increase is largely due to population ageing and longer lifespan

But memory loss isn't just for the elderly. Stats SA reports that over 18% of South Africans have experienced psychological distress, often linked to forgetfulness, anxiety, and depression. Poor mental health, combined with physical health issues, can significantly affect memory.

The National Planning Commission states that South Africa faces a "quadruple burden of disease," including mental health conditions, which adds to the overall health challenges.

Online, some wondered whether lifestyle choices were to blame. As Kaybee responded to speculation about drug use: "I have never (smoked weed)." 

Research confirms that while substance abuse can impact memory, so can many other factors, as mentioned above.

“This is rocking me” The musician’s fear isn’t just about forgetting names or dates; it’s the loss of self, identity, and ability to be present for his children. 

His words, “I wonder how long I can keep what is left of my memory bank,” highlight the devastating uncertainty of living with amnesia. 

For parents like Kaybee, memory loss is more than a personal struggle; it’s a fear of failing the people who depend on you the most. The thought of forgetting milestones, being unable to provide emotional guidance, or simply being a reliable presence can be crushing.

Fans and followers on X were quick to rally around him, sharing their struggles with memory loss and offering words of encouragement.  

One user wrote, “Chin up, shoulders straight! God has made you fortunate enough to keep seeking viable medical assistance. Don’t let your condition take any more than it has from you. Fight, my brother!” 

Others offered practical tips on coping, like documenting daily tasks and thoughts in notebooks or phone apps. While not a cure, these strategies can help those with memory challenges stay organised and reclaim some control over their lives.  

This "external memory" method is backed by research. According to Harvard Health, writing things down, setting reminders, and using smartphone apps can help ease daily struggles.

Here’s what you can do to protect your memory and cognitive health:  

  • Prioritise sleep: Sleep is essential for memory consolidation. Aim for 7–9 hours of quality sleep each night.  
  • Manage stress: Incorporate mindfulness practices like meditation, yoga, or journaling to keep stress hormones in check.  
  • Stay active: Regular physical exercise improves blood flow to the brain and supports cognitive function.  
  • Eat brain-friendly foods: A diet rich in leafy greens, fatty fish, nuts, and berries provides essential nutrients for brain health.  
  • Routine check-up: If you notice persistent memory issues, consult a neurologist. Early intervention can make a significant difference.